Vrede en Lust is a real-world wonderland and is the latest winner of Kfm 94.5’s Best of the Cape Awards.
Founded more than 300 years ago, the farm is an ode to standing the test of time. Today, this breathtakingly modern wine farm – a family-owned and managed wine business – is a tribute to its noble roots and continues to build on years of history and heritage.

A Winelands gem that oozes romance at every point, Vrede en Lust’s views are stunning, featuring rolling green lawns, vineyards, and historical Cape Dutch architecture – the perfect backdrop for a stunning wedding ceremony.

After enjoying pre-drinks in the garden, guests can make their way to the Vineyard Terrace. Here, surrounded by frameless glass walls and doused in natural light, couples say I do. A stunning start to forever.


Leading up to your big day, Vrede en Lust’s talented team of wedding coordinators will be sure to check all of your dream day boxes. From pre-planning to world-class catering on the day and fabulous accommodation in which to stay after, Vrede en Lust provides the full wedding monty. And it’s all exclusive and customisable, of course.

Planning a wedding on any scale is no walk in the vineyards. This is what makes Vrede en Lust’s Wedding Venue offerings so spectacular.
Offerings include:
- A picturesque venue with historical Cape Dutch architecture and undulating vineyards.
- A wedding venue enclosed with glass walls.
- A beautiful ceremony and pre-drinks in the gardens.
- Seating for up to 120 people, with a dance floor inside. Or, up to 150 guests with a dance floor outside (weather permitting).
- There’s accommodation for up to 40 guests on the estate within walking distance from the wedding venue.
- Access to exclusive use of the wedding venue and accommodation section of the farm by the bridal couple and their guests for the duration of their stay.
- Catering by Lust Bistro and Bakery – delicious!
The Vineyard Terrace:
- The Vineyard terrace offers spectacular views with a total of 300sqm outdoor floor space, surrounded by frameless glass (250sqm covered by a permanent roof structure).
- The historic cellar covers more than 300sqm, with a permanent kitchen and toilets.
- The venue is backed by generator power to ensure no loss of electricity at any time. Cheers, Eskom.
The good folks at Vrede en Lust welcome you to visit the venue and discuss your requirements with their incredible wedding coordinators.
- Contact VNL Coordinators: 021 874 1611 (during business hours, Monday to Friday, 8am to 5pm) or email [email protected].
Vrede en Lust’s Details:
- Website: www.vnl.co.za
- Location: Intersection R45 & Klapmuts Road, Simondium, Western Cape.
The finalists in this category were:
- Bona Dea Private Estate in Hermanus
- Bosjes in Ceres
- Damarakloof in Stellenbosch
- De Uijlenes in Gansbaai
Feature image: Vrede en Rust
There’s nothing we love more than a fairytale proposal, and is there anything more romantic than running 90 kilometres to show just how much you want to be…
We all know how stressful planning a wedding can be, making wedding planning burnout a very real possibility. Whether you’re trying not to pull out your hair as wedding costs skyrocket or you’re obsessing over every little detail to ensure that everything goes the way you’ve pictured it, feeling overwhelmed is guaranteed to happen if you’re not careful.
Thankfully, this isn’t something new and there are endless resources to help the modern bridal couple looking to keep costs and anxiety low.
Here are a few things to keep in mind when attempting to avoid wedding planning burnout:
Don’t rush
This may not always be possible but last-minute wedding planning is not fun for anyone, especially the soon-to-be bride and groom. While there’s nothing wrong with wanting to hop, skip, and jump right into the part where you say “I do,” making sure that you have enough time to plan your dream wedding is always advised as this will give you a spacious timeline to ensure things are handled well and that the process is smooth.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help
The number one reason for wedding planning burning is not asking for help. While it’s not always easy to ask for help, it is a necessary practice if you’re looking to keep your bridal party or the partner you’re set to marry, make sure you delegate tasks to ensure everything on your list is ticked off and that you’re not Atlas attempting to carry the world on your shoulders.
Be normal!
It’s so easy to get wrapped up in planning that you may forget why you’re actually getting married – love. A great way to keep your mental health in tip-top shape is by making sure that you get out and spend some quality time with each other. Plan an epic date night with your partner with a strict “no wedding talk rule,” this will allow you to keep some sense of normality.
Have some fun
Can wedding planning be fun? Well, you’ll need to find out. A big reason for something being incredibly stressful is because it’s just not bringing you the joy you need, so why not endeavour to pull out the fun card? For example, if you’re deciding what you should serve at your wedding, why not turn it into an adventure by setting it up as a “culinary tour” that could also double as a date night?
Technology is your friend
There are countless wedding apps that are ready to lend a helping hand as you attempt to navigate the minefield that is wedding planning. Whether you’re looking to make your life easier by setting up a wedding website and forgoing physical invitations or looking for a nifty app to help you sort out your budget, there’s something for everyone in need.
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A Summer 2025 Guide for Couples Planning to Pop the Question
With the Southern Hemisphere summer in full swing (November–March), Cape Town is filled with possibilities to create a perfect proposal moment, from majestic mountain peaks to serene vineyards and golden beachscapes.
Table Mountain Sunset Spots
Say “Yes” with the World at Your Feet
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Cable Car Summit View: Take your partner on the iconic Table Mountain Aerial Cableway, which lifts you 765 m to sweeping views over Cape Town. It’s an unforgettable setting for a sunset proposal, especially if you pre‑book tickets to avoid queues and take advantage of golden hour light.

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Contour Path Picnic: Walk a quieter path along Table Mountain’s ridge and pause at a secluded ledge for a private moment, perfect for those who prefer intimacy with a bit of adventure.

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Elevated Extras: Many guides and proposal planners can help coordinate flower arrangements, a musician, or a photographer to capture your moment in style.

Pro Tip: Sunset proposals on Table Mountain create stunning photos and lifelong memories. Book evening cable-car slots, especially between December and February, to avoid mid‑summer wind or clouds.
Camps Bay Beachfront Bliss
Romance by the Ocean
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Best Timing: Arrive early evening so you can watch the sun dip behind the Twelve Apostles mountain chain.

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Proposal Scenes: Consider a cozy beachfront picnic with fairy lights, or a romantic beachside dinner at popular spots like The Bungalow. Don’t overlook quieter gems like Glen Beach or the tidal pools for a more private moment.

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Why It’s Magical: A soft Atlantic breeze, palm trees swaying, ocean waves, and a mountain silhouette backdrop, Camps Bay offers a cinematic setting without the fuss.

Wine Estate Venues in the Cape Winelands
Vineyard Views & Vintage Love
Top Estate Picks for 2025:
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Babylonstoren: Just under an hour from Cape Town, this 17th-century Cape Dutch estate blends lush gardens, a spa, farm‑to‑table cuisine, and elegant accommodations. Proposing amid immaculately manicured vineyards or over a private wine tasting or cellar tour offers intimacy and sophistication.

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Beau Constantia: Perched above False Bay with sweeping mountain-to-ocean vistas, this boutique wine farm provides scenic spots and a delectable restaurant, Zama, ideal for romantic sunset proposals followed by dinner under the stars.

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The Cellars‑Hohenort (Constantia Valley): Though no longer a working estate, this elegant 17th‑century manor hotel offers tranquil gardens with towering camphor trees and a rose‑filled landscape. It’s ideal for a garden proposal followed by a gourmet meal or spa treat.

Proposal Ideas:
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Arrange a vineyard picnic complete with bubbly and blooms.
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Schedule a private wine cellar tour ending with your proposal at sunset.
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Book a couples spa followed by a romantic terrace moment overlooking vineyards.
Pro Tips: Contact the estate in advance to help organise flowers, private setups, and photographers.
Additional Cape Town Proposal Locations
Sunset Rock (Fresnaye / Bantry Bay)
Perched atop Nettleton Drive, Sunset Rock delivers panoramic views of Camps Bay, Lion’s Head, and the Atlantic. From the rock outcrop, the iconic vistas combined with golden-hour light offer a sweeping, dramatic backdrop. According to local couples, “Sunset Rock … is so gorgeous … set up a nice picnic on the boulders” earlier in the day to avoid crowds.
Signal Hill
A quick drive up offers sweeping city and ocean views, especially stunning at sunset. Known as a classic romantic spot, many couples propose on a picnic with sunset cocktails. A charming anecdote recalls a cupcake proposal hidden in the icing while watching the sun descend.
Kirstenbosch Botanical Gardens
Nestled at Table Mountain’s base, this garden paradise features lush lawns, native flora and the treetop Boomslang Walkway. Couples can propose over a chic picnic or while strolling among colorful native flowers.
Bo‑Kaap Colourful Streets
For vibrant and playful vibes, Bo‑Kaap’s rainbow-hued houses and cobblestone laneways make a cheerful backdrop. Great for couples who love bold personalities or surprises disguised as a fun photoshoot.
Clifton & Llandudno Beaches
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Clifton: With powder-white sands, dramatic boulders, and deluxe sunset views, this area excudes a luxurious coastal vibe.
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Llandudno: Quiet and scenic, ideal for low-tide sunset proposals or climbing to the headland for private panoramic moments.
Noordhoek Beach (Long Beach)
A vast stretch of white sand ideal for horse rides or long romantic walks preceding a proposal. The sunset here, viewed from the dunes, is unrivalled in its sweeping simplicity.
Cape Point & Dias Beach
Cape Point’s dramatic cliffs and sweeping Atlantic vistas offer a sense of untamed beauty. For greater privacy, head to Dias Beach, a secluded stretch beneath Chapman’s Peak, for understated romance at the edge of the continent.
Lichtenstein Castle (Hout Bay)
This private estate, modeled on a German Gothic castle, overlooks Hout Bay. The landscaped gardens and fairy‑tale architecture create an enchanting setting for an elegant proposal, book in advance via appointment-only access.
Boulders Beach
For couples craving something uniquely charming and lighthearted, Boulders Beach in Simon’s Town offers the perfect blend of wildlife magic and coastal beauty. Home to a protected colony of African penguins, this serene cove features calm, warm Indian Ocean waters, granite boulders, and sandy inlets ideal for a memorable proposal moment.
Majik Forest & Newlands Forest
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Majik Forest: A hidden woodland spot with ponds, ducks, and soft grassy glades ideal for couples who want nature and pet-friendly charm.
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Newlands Forest: Mossy canopies and filtered light give this forest an atmospheric, private feel, perfect for intimate moments and peaceful strolls.
Hidden Winelands Gems
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Hidden Valley Wine Farm: Set on the slopes of Helderberg Mountain, with olive groves and shimmering fynbos views, great picnic and wine‑tasting setting followed by “yes” under the vines.
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Klein Roosboom Boutique Winery: Nested inside restored underground ‘caves,’ this venue offers candlelit, cozy wine tasting nooks with vintage charm for a uniquely romantic proposal.
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Lourensford Estate: Stunning views over False Bay, a serene dam with jetty, and sweeping landscape, reminiscent of cinematic romance settings (permission may be required for certain areas)
Tips for a Perfect Cape Town Summer Proposal
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Timing Is Everything: Aim for late afternoon or early evening to avoid the midday heat and crowds. Cape Town’s famous “Cape Doctor” wind can sweep in unexpectedly, so have an alternate plan if windy conditions arise.
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Permit Considerations: Some public parks or beaches require permissions for commercial setups or larger decorations, check with authorities if you’re planning elaborate setups.
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Proposal Planners: Many planners specialise in Cape Town engagements, handling logistics, décor, photography, and transport so the moment stays magical and stress‑free.
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Consider Photos: Hiring a local engagement photographer ensures professional photos capturing the golden hour or sunset glow, moments you’ll treasure forever.
Cape Town in summer offers breathtaking, diverse backdrops for unforgettable proposals. Whether you envision standing high above the city on Table Mountain, toes in the sand in Camps Bay, or surrounded by vines at a wine estate, choose the setting that reflects your love story.
Plan Your Proposal
Visit our curated directory of proposal planners, engagement photographers, and romantic stylists in Cape Town for help turning your dream proposal into reality.
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Why Written Contracts Are Essential In South Africa, verbal agreements are rarely enforceable, you need written contracts for clarity and legal recourse. Whether it’s your venue, caterer, photographer,…
A wedding day is a time for celebration. Chances are, however, some might celebrate a bit too hard. Wedding hangovers can be pretty harsh for your guests, so why not help them recover?
Wedding hangover kits have become popular wedding favours in recent years. What’s great about this favour is that it’s easily DIY’ed, and couples can add whatever they want.

If you plan on making your own kit, consider adding some of these items:
– Over-the-counter pain pills, e.g Panado for those pounding headaches
– A bottle of water to prevent a dry throat
– An eye mask to reduce puffiness
– plasters for those blisters after dancing all night long
– A granola bar for energy
– sunglasses to hide those bloodshot eyes
– gum or mouth wash
– a mini bottle of alcohol because… you know, hair of the dog

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Having your ring engraved is an excellent way to personalise your engagement ring. It allows couples to write sweet messages of devotion to one another, and keep it…
Most people who enter reality competitions naturally want to be winners (whether the prize is love, money or both) but sometimes winning the way we thought we wanted is far from the only way to win.
The Bachelor SA runner-up, Bridget Marshall found her own Prince Charming after the show, and she said ‘I do’ recently!
Marshall was the runner-up and never got the final rose in the season finale with Marc Buckner. The season 2 runner-up had her fairy tale dreams shattered when she lost to Marisia van Wyk back in 2020 when the season was televised but little did she know that this was a blessing in disguise.
She later went on to meet Kobus de Kock, a former Rugby player who would become her now husband. The wedding announcement came out of the blue but fans were truly happy that she got her happily ever after. The two wed in August and Bridget stunned her guests in two breathtaking gowns.
In a recent Instagram post she shared that:
“The way I felt when my Bridal look came together – PRICELESS. My dream of what I wanted from when I was a little girl came to life.”
Her gorgeous gowns came from The Wedding Boutique and they couldn’t have done better at bringing out the natural beauty she already has. The couple wed in the picturesque valleys of Stellenbosch at a gorgeous wine estate. Friends, loved ones and fans on socials could not get enough of the images shared on Marshall’s Instagram.
SA’s Bachelorette Qiniso Van Damme said “LOVE YOUR DRESS!!!!!” and yes, she included 5 exclamation marks which only emphasises that this bride looked like an absolute princess.
We wish the couple all the best on their future together and many more fairy tale moments to come!
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Author: Rojaun Devos