Project Runway judge throws virtual block party wedding

Project Runway judge throws virtual block party wedding

Project Runway judge, New York Times best-selling author Elaine Welteroth said ‘I do’ to musician Jonathan Singletary in a virtual block party wedding outside their New York apartment.

Elaine and Jonathan met at the young age of 12 through church, but it was only in 2013 when the pair would be reunited as adults that a romance began to blossom. They became engaged in 2016. Their wedding date, May 10, 2020, was chosen for its special numerical order:  5-10-20.

“There was so much symbolism in this sequence of numbers [5-10-20] that only come together once in a lifetime,” Elaine explains to Vogue. “Also, it fell on a Sunday—the day we met as kids and saw each other every week growing up. But it wasn’t just any Sunday, it would be Mother’s Day!”

They were meant to marry at a church friend’s home close to the church in Northern California where they first met. However, with the coronavirus pandemic, those plans were cancelled. Instead, they threw a “virtual quarantine wedding” on their stoop in Brooklyn.

Their friends and family all jumped in to make sure the new plan was a success. The stoop was decorated with a whimsical floral arch that framed the front door.

All 200 guests, even the ones attending via Zoom, were given a white dress code. The in-person guests followed social distancing protocols and were provided gloves and masks on-site in addition to white parasols, bubbles, seeds to plant flowers, and homemade brownies from Elaine’s mom’s family recipe in a gift bag.

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The view from @ElaineWelteroth and @JonathanSingletary's Brooklyn stoop, moments before the couple's socially distant wedding ceremony. "As soon as the music started, my neighbors poured out onto the streets," Elaine remembers, "onto their roofs, and some watched from their windows with homemade signs or pots and pans to celebrate with us." They wanted the stoop to be the centerpiece of their virtual wedding because it’s a space that holds a lot of significance for them as a couple, especially during these quarantined times. “For New Yorkers without rooftop access, a backyard, or a weekend home upstate to escape to, a stoop becomes your coveted slice of outdoor space—your one refuge for fresh air and sunlight,” Elaine explains. “Whenever we need to clear our heads and get out of the house, we sit—or dance—on our stoop together.” Tap the link in our bio to see more from the couple's quarantine wedding, including how Elaine's dream of walking down an aisle came true—thanks to 10-foot chalk marks and her loved ones. Photo by @belathee

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The bride made her walk down the ‘aisle’ wearing a label-less dress she’s owned for years, and her mother’s wedding veil. She even did her own makeup in the backseat of a car.

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For @ElaineWelteroth's quarantine wedding in Brooklyn, New York, the bride opted for a label-less white dress from her own closet. “I hadn’t worn it in over three years,” she says. “But it was the first idea that came to mind when I envisioned us getting married on my stoop. And since the mantra we set for our stoop wedding was, ‘Do the best you can with what you have,’ I decided to not overthink it. My mom mailed me her wedding dress from California to try on, and I loved it, but didn’t quite feel like me in it. I still wanted a piece of my mom with me that day, though, so I decided to wear her veil. It ended up matching the dress perfectly.” Tap the link in our bio to see more from Elaine and @JonathanSingletary's socially distant wedding, including how they transformed their stoop for the ceremony, and got their guests to tune in via Zoom. Photo by @micaiahcarter

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The wedding was officiated via Zoom by Dr. Stanley Long, the founding pastor of South Bay Community Church, the couple’s home church in California.

Then, the virtual block party began. Each guest had been sent a playlist to join in on the party. Their friend also DJ’ed live for the guests.

Even though it wasn’t the wedding they had planned, it was still a special one because their loved ones were there and they could hold it on their original date.

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Elaine Welteroth (@elainewelteroth)—the New York Times best-selling author, Project Runway judge, and former editor in chief of Teen Vogue—had just returned to New York from her bachelorette retreat in the Dominican Republic as COVID-19 was beginning to spread in the United States. Right around the same time, her now-husband, musician Jonathan Singletary (@jonathansingletary), had been gearing up for his bachelor party in Mexico. “Once it was clear that postponing the bachelor party weekend was the only decision to be made, our eyes turned reluctantly toward our wedding date," Elaine remembers. The couple had originally planned for an intimate ceremony on a private estate in California—where both the bride and groom are from—on May 10, 2020. “It fell on a Sunday—the day we met as kids and saw each other every week growing up," Elaine says. "But it wasn’t just any Sunday, it would be Mother’s Day!” Their wedding plans became a tribute to their mothers, who not only introduced them through church—“but, to let them tell it, they swear it was their collective prayers that made this marriage happen!” The creative brief was for it to be “an elevated—literally, by the hills of Mount Diablo—Sunday-gospel-brunch wedding with elegantly plated soul food and a festive black-tie dress code.” The couple had just about every detail set in place. When it became clear that their dream wedding wasn’t going to happen due to COVID-19, the couple had to make a choice—after a brief stint of denial—to completely shift their vision. "I woke up one day and walked into Jonathan’s home studio and said, ‘I am marrying you on 5-10-20. It may have to be right here on our stoop. And I might be in sweats. But we are still doing this, come hell or high water.'" Tap the link in our bio to see how the bride and groom pulled off a quarantine wedding on their Brooklyn stoop, followed by a virtual block party. Flowers by @lewismillerdesign Photo by @belathee

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